On PT today.

Okay, something on PT really bothered me, and I need to let this out.
I guess some girl who's been a known drama queen made a post bringing drama for her real-life and threatening suicide and deleted her account, then another member came on and said that he was the one the post was aimed at (because they know each other in real life) and said a few more things, like something along the lines of it was coming to her and he secretly hopes she spends a long time in ICU (oh yeah, forgot to mention he said she's in the hospital).
Honestly, we don't know the whole story, so it's truly none of our business. People were saying how horrible he is, etc. But honestly, we only heard her side. He wasn't catty enough to try and defend himself and make her look bad, and I'm sure he could have tried (so kuddos to that). Haven't you ever been so frustrated with someone that you said things you don't mean? Of course you have. It's none of our fucking business what he said. He didn't know how unstable she was and how serious she was about going through with her threats. He didn't know that what he was saying would cause her to actually KILL HERSELF (which we later learned she had died). Now he feels like shit for what he said to her and about her, and people kept making it worse by saying what a jerk he was. Seriously, he fucking knows. But you don't. You don't know the whole story, why would you pry yourself in and make him feel like a worthless piece of shit because you feel like starting drama. Don't get involved in other's people's drama, because YOU DON'T FUCKING HAVE A CLUE.
And that's not even what pissed me off the most. What was horribly DISGUSTING was that people were bitching the whole thread about it being fake, calling her a troll and saying that he was just the same person on a different account. Okay, I get it, it's a little fishy. I KNOW there are some odd things in this story, but honestly you have no right to say who's a troll and who's not because (hey, I'm going to repeat myself here): YOU DON'T FUCKING KNOW. JUST because people don't act the same way you do, doesn't mean they are fakes. To be honest, I was suspicious too, but I would NEVER tell someone they're just trolling or being a drama queen. ESPECIALLY on such a serious thread.
So I posted: wtf is wrong with you people? what does voicing your concerns that this is a fake have to do with anything? fuck, if you want to bitch about it, bitch in PMs or go make your own fucking topic and discuss there, not on her suicide post. you're making him feel like complete shit, and why? What does that accomplish for you?
(along with a little message to the guy involved)
and then someone posted in response saying :
am voicing my concernes here so that people like you dont fall for obvious trolling.

What does it accomplish for me? Well, nothing really. Do I care though? No, not a shit was given on this day.

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wow, okay, so you're just a bitch? Okay. Go fuck yourself.
I'm not a fucking idiot. I know he/she/they could very well be trolling. ANYONE on PT could be a troll. Do I care? NO. I subject MYSELF to that.
Good for you for being such a bitch as to not care what your 'concerns' are doing to other people- i.e. the guy whose friend just killed herself because something he said to her, unknowing that she was so emotionally fucked up.
Honestly, it does nothing for you but EVERYTHING to someone like him. You alienated him in the only place that supported him in his time of such grief. I'm just glad that people like YOU tend to just hover in your own little minds instead of infecting those around you. Fortunately, there are more people like ME on PT who gave him the support he needed.
why the fuck do people have to be so rude. WHY DO THEY FEEL THEY HAVE TO 'WARN' OTHERS? what. the. fuck.
sorry, ranting. That just pissed me off and the thread was locked so I couldn't tell her any of this.
Usually, I'm very calm, but this just set me off. I don't think I've ever bitched anyone out before. I wish people could just employ the old 'if you don't have anything nice to say' idea. I know it's tacky and somewhat stupid, but at least on such a serious topic it should be remembered that people are in a vulnerable place. Don't be a bitch in the worst place possible to be a bitch.
I guess this is usually where I say peace out. It seems pointless now.